I thought this would be good for a few laughs. This "gentleman" has tried contacting me 4 times now without a response on my end, here is his latest attempt.
now im tryna get to know this
lil dime
me n her together wud be a crime
but its all good if u do what u
do
long as u dont let these bustas
roll wit u
let it all go, dont be shy
i bet one of my kisses will get
u high, so dont pass by
i got the answer to ur questions
babygirl, i cant lie
maybe im just the one u
shouldnt deny
Yes, someone actually wrote this...
SB.
Monday, August 30, 2010
A Walk in the Park - Date 1 with "The Painter"
After asking to meet with me at least 20 times (i'm not exagerating here) I finally decided to meet with The Painter. He's a 37 year old business owner, and... he paints houses for a living. Not my usual type but you've gotta give a guy credit for trying and I really needed to get out of the house. I'm going squirrely with no job, therefore this blog has been born.
I dressed in yoga pants and a long sleeve black t-shirt, nike sneakers and hair down. (Never try too hard on the first date) We decided to meet at 6 at a local park and he managed to forget what entrance we were meeting at, even though he was the one who chose it (not a good sign). Nonetheless, after waiting for him for 5 minutes in the field he showed up in a truck/SUV like vehicle. First impression, better looking than his photographs had led on, tall and surprisingly well built. Felt reassured that this wasn't a complete waste of time, so we tried to walk our dogs. Unfortunately my dog did not like his and would not walk, and I refuse to carry her. So we just kinda hung out in a field and chatted. He's sweet, but not all that intellectual...
Our dogs kept trying to eat horse poop, we kept chasing them away from it. ... and then we started to talk about our ex's. Where's the romance?
He gave me a big hug and suggested we go for another walk. I was pretty much set on saying "no" but then the hug was surprisingly comforting.
Conclusion: I'm up for another walk, it was almost a a no go, but the hug was nice and I really could use to get out of the house more. Next time we'll choose a place without horse poop and leave the dogs behind. At the very least he'd make a good friend.
I dressed in yoga pants and a long sleeve black t-shirt, nike sneakers and hair down. (Never try too hard on the first date) We decided to meet at 6 at a local park and he managed to forget what entrance we were meeting at, even though he was the one who chose it (not a good sign). Nonetheless, after waiting for him for 5 minutes in the field he showed up in a truck/SUV like vehicle. First impression, better looking than his photographs had led on, tall and surprisingly well built. Felt reassured that this wasn't a complete waste of time, so we tried to walk our dogs. Unfortunately my dog did not like his and would not walk, and I refuse to carry her. So we just kinda hung out in a field and chatted. He's sweet, but not all that intellectual...
Our dogs kept trying to eat horse poop, we kept chasing them away from it. ... and then we started to talk about our ex's. Where's the romance?
He gave me a big hug and suggested we go for another walk. I was pretty much set on saying "no" but then the hug was surprisingly comforting.
Conclusion: I'm up for another walk, it was almost a a no go, but the hug was nice and I really could use to get out of the house more. Next time we'll choose a place without horse poop and leave the dogs behind. At the very least he'd make a good friend.
The Rules - Part 1
It's been over a year since I left my relationship of over 6 years, since then I've been online dating in a casual way. I've had a couple "relationships" that have been about 2 months, but nothing serious and I want serious. Problem is, I'm also picky. I know what I want and I'm not settling. This blog is my journal of my encounters with online dating. And I'm setting some ground rules:
Rule 1: At least 3 dates a week, the more the better.
Rule 2: If there's a connection, that's great, but rule 1 is still in place, there can be three dates with the same guy or with "the connection" and new guys.
Rule 3: If the date isn't great, move on to the next guy. I'm not wasting time.
Rule 4: If "the connection" moves in to relationship land (this is the goal) then all above rules are no longer applicable.
Rule 1: At least 3 dates a week, the more the better.
Rule 2: If there's a connection, that's great, but rule 1 is still in place, there can be three dates with the same guy or with "the connection" and new guys.
Rule 3: If the date isn't great, move on to the next guy. I'm not wasting time.
Rule 4: If "the connection" moves in to relationship land (this is the goal) then all above rules are no longer applicable.
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