Men, boys, if you're reading this, take note. Always offer to pay for your date's drink. I know you may be thinking that she might get offended, or maybe you're just cheap. But take my advice and try to pay, she'll let you know if she doesn't want you to, and if she expects it, you've made a good first impression. I'm not trying to say I can't afford my $2 tea, but there is something to be said for chivalry. Open the door, pay the tab and let me know I'm gorgeous.
The Techy and I met at a local coffee shop (I'm going to have to keep alternating them to keep the baristas from wondering). He was surprisingly handsome, quite tall and very well built. Considering he's in his late thirties, I was quite impressed by his physique. Then he gave me a hug... and I like big hugs. Squeeze me! If I'm wrapping my arms around you and meeting you for a date, give me a good hug. Maybe it was because he was so tall, maybe he just wasn't in to me, but he gave me a one armed back tap hug. You know, the one you give to the ex you don't like, or great Aunt Mildred? I tried not to judge... so we proceeded to get our beverages of choice... neither of us drink coffee. I ordered an unsweetened iced tea, he bought an orange juice. I paid for my own drink, that immediately made me think he wasn't in to me. We sat down at one of the tiny standard wooden tables and sipped at our drinks and proceeded with useless chit chat. I almost drifted off listening to him talk about old tiles and asbestos. Apparently he also flips homes, and is quite passionate about demolition and renovations. Dull.
The date lasted an hour, I bought a book and then he walked me to my car. I had almost given up on the date completely, but alas, he went in for another hug. Progression, still a little stiff, but I think we moved further on... till his hand slipped touched my ass. Accident? Too long of arms? Maybe he was interested... I'm hung on this one... I'll have to see if he calls back. I'm thinking probably a "no" for a second date, but I'm wondering if he's just shy. (He is a well bred Winnipeg farm boy after all).
Must go, on to a second date with "The Painter". Coffee and a walk at the beach... I'm thinking this one may turn in to a friend. Will he try and dive in for the second date kiss, or hold off as he knows I just got out of a relationship? ... You can never have too many friends and he's kinda cute in a sweetheart cuddly way. Update later.
Cheers,
SB
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